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[–]greenie 1 point2 points ago

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also that privatepaste is entirely full of shit. Like... literally making things up.

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[–]greenie 0 points1 point ago

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no, the point was that if it was said about trans woman, people would have known quickly that was a fucked up thing because it was an attack on their trans ness not an attack on their woman ness.

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[–]greenie 1 point2 points ago

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Thanks avery. I'm sure that your opinion is not at all tainted by prior interactions you and I have had, and you are entirely neutral.

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[–]greenie 2 points3 points ago

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I think that is a framework shoehorned into this discussion. (which, as a reminder, was about trans dudes. This was literally about "making fun of trans men for trans related dysphoria is not "making fun of men"--it's making fun of trans ness."

Which makes me really upset that people think its totally cool and okay.

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[–]greenie 1 point2 points ago

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so, you don't actually know what this conversation is about at all, you're just repeating what other people have said?

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[–]greenie 3 points4 points ago

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trans women talking about transmisogyny should always get to be heard.

This is not what was being talked about?

getting told to go back to /mensrights is something that happens when you say something that reads as menrightsy

There is no reasonable reading of what I said that would make anyone say that. As I said- making fun of trans men for trans related dysphoria is not "making fun of men"--it's making fun of trans ness.

when someone is telling you that you're being transmisogynistic,

This is not a thing that was ever said.

step back from a conversation that YOU'RE INVOLVED IN to make an admin decision

This is a fair point. Its only a week-long ban.

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[–]greenie 4 points5 points ago

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you think that was a callout? thats... no.

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[–]greenie 4 points5 points ago

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we have a patreon?

so yall are totally okay with transphobic jokes, with lif jumping down my throat and putting words in my mouth, telling me to go back to mensrights, but I ban them for a week and... literally the worst thing ever?

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[–]greenie 3 points4 points ago

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i'm definitely inclined to make fun of them when they get too into shitty ideas about masculinity. it's very frustrating how they can get all up in the hypermasculine dude culture and be praised for that not only by the more liberal proponents of the patriarchy but also by a certain kind of feminist, and sometimes i have to laugh or i'd just be too angry to deal

I think it was that part I meant, sorry. I know you didn't mean it that way, but in the context of discussing a joke about something that triggers dysphoria for a lot of guys, talking about how shit they often are (which I agree with) rubbed me the wrong way I think.

But yeah, I'm sorry, I do generally agree with you. This thread seems to have devolved much more than I meant it to, sorry.

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[–]greenie[A] 3 points4 points ago

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Yeah you're banned. Send a modmail in a week and can probably be unbanned.

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[–]greenie 4 points5 points ago

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wtf? where the hell do you think I'm defending masculinity

this made me laugh out loud. post this shit on r/mensrights, not thefempire

No, you chucklehead, I'm talking about transphobia and dysphoria. Not "what about the mens". Jesus.

making fun of trans men for trans related dysphoria is not "making fun of men"--it's making fun of trans ness.

post this shit on r/mensrights,

yeah go fuck yourself. This was inappropriate. My apologies.

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[–]greenie 4 points5 points ago

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thanks for your very kind and nuanced input. super appreciated.

I'm talking about shit that is legitimately triggering to a non-small amount of trans dudes, and your response is to make fun of me with "not all men"? Thanks.

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[–]greenie 4 points5 points ago

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no im sorry, i wasnt trying to give you shit really, was just kinda tangenting off your comment. I think the "trans men are assholes" bit rubbed me the wrong way considering context, but yeah, was mostly just a tangent I'm sorry.

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[–]greenie 3 points4 points ago

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you need to have at least one linkflair and click the "user can edit?" button, iirc. I set that up, i think should work now?

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[–]greenie 3 points4 points ago

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try now?

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[–]greenie 5 points6 points ago

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it's very frustrating how they can get all up in the hypermasculine dude culture

idk, i feel like folks use this as an excuse to cruelly shit on trans men. Yes, we get it, trans dudes can be misogynistic assholes. I agree, we all agree. But if the exact joke had been turned around to be about something that makes trans women hella dysphoric... theres no way that would fly.

considering how queer (and specifically trans) this community is... idk. its kinda disappointing tbh, not to be a fun ruiner, im sorry.

I mean shit, the way tampons are marketed and sold makes me anxious as fuck buying them, because of how gendered that shit is. Trans dudes on T generally don't bleed, and for many, if they do, its probably a massive dysphoric panic when it does happen. (please note I'm not trying to speak on behalf of trans guys here, I apologise if I come across that way)

I'm sorry, I know I'm being an asshole and ruining the lighthearted fun, and I really don't mean to do that, but yeah. I think this thread went too far with that stuff.

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[–]greenie 4 points5 points ago

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oic

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[–]greenie 8 points9 points ago

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ehhh tbh most tampon shit is like OMG FLOWERS SO FEMININE WOW. Shit even makes me uncomfortable.

Trans dudes on T generally don't get their period, afaik, and getting it does often make folks feel dysphoric. I'm sure the super feminine marketing of tampon and other products prob just would make that worse.

I don't really want to shit on / make fun of trans dudes because of that.

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[–]greenie 3 points4 points ago

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theres cat litter and bus seats for men?

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[–]greenie 2 points3 points ago

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mooms

I'm not clicking the last two (anime, Aurini) because I'm an old lady and I dont think I want to understand such things and im drunk and yolo, as the kids say today.

thanks for explaining mooms though :3

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[–]greenie 8 points9 points ago

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  • what are mooms

  • idk any of these animes

  • ive not plaid any of these videah

  • idk who davis aurini is

  • im sorry i feel like i should know more things but i dont :(

Anyone want to get this forum active? I'm fed up with 2XC. by emma-underscoresin women

[–]greenie 6 points7 points ago

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/r/women won't be a private sub, sorry.