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i made a dice tower last night because i was depressed by Dogmantrain just_post

[–]toasthaste 1 point2 points ago

I made this in the middle of the night to stop myself from playing league of legends

honestly the most powerful and valid reason

this is so cool tho omg it never occurred to me that a person could go and make a dice tower!

any a y'all play destiny 2? by toasthastein just_post

[–]toasthaste[S] 1 point2 points ago

lmao you gotta text a photo of the receipt to a number apparently, and I sure dont have that, sry lol, i assumed the code would just be inside the box 🙄

I went to per release after not playing for a while by Presidential_Afroin mtg

[–]toasthaste 2 points3 points ago

hey not bad! so was it mostly a dino deck, or was there a strong merfolk presence too?

part of why I don't do prereleases (in addition to social anxiety/ not wanting to be the only lady there) is cause sealed feels so iffy to me, it's so dependent on just the luck of the packs compared to draft.

What should someone who has been falsely accused of sexual assault do? (CW for sexual assault accusation and discussion) by 1vsin yourpersonalblog

[–]toasthaste 5 points6 points ago

Honestly... I have no idea what the person accused could possibly do. I'm thinking about if there was someone I was truly, utterly convinced had sexually assaulted someone, and like... nothing comes to mind that they could do to convince me otherwise.

I think a lot of the onus is on everyone else to prevent this situation in the first place, by actually listening, and thinking before spreading rumors-- and to goddamn listen to the supposed victim when they say the person didn't sexually assault them.

Like, it's definitely a thing that assault victims will lie or hide the truth about what happened to them, for any number of reasons, but it's not up to the peanut gallery to speculate on what really happened.

People who aren't close to a situation and are only hearing about it second- or third-hand need to butt out until and unless their involvement is requested by the victim, basically is what I'm saying. Sorry this isn't very helpful, this is an awful situation :(

What should someone who has been falsely accused of sexual assault do? (CW for sexual assault accusation and discussion) by 1vsin yourpersonalblog

[–]toasthaste 2 points3 points ago

I might even be partially responsible for seeding this rumor. After that bad thing happened in the sex, I sought comfort from someone. I told them I consented, but they must have taken it the wrong way. I inadvertently helped to cause so much pain for this person.

That's on the friend who took it the wrong way and then, rather than asking for clarification from you of what you wanted them to do going forward, took matters into their own hands. They fucked up there. Not your fault at all even a little bit. You should be able to seek comfort after an unpleasant experience without worrying about screwing with someone's life.

today is the first day of the christmas season by devteslain just_post

[–]toasthaste 1 point2 points ago

i haven't put up the christmas cards yet so no i disagree

d d d discord!!! tonight!!! by devteslain just_post

[–]toasthaste 2 points3 points ago

ill be there later remind me in a bit if ya don't see me

small rant about gender roles by oakreefin just_post

[–]toasthaste 1 point2 points ago

ughhhhhh

They're not nearly as bad but my sister's kid is constantly talking about gender role shit like, any time any character in a thing is in an even slightly non-gender-normative role, she's like "what, why is a girl doing this thing, that's a boy thing?"

yesterday she literally said she thinks there are more boys than girls, like in the world. I feel like that says a LOT :/

The worst issue yet of don't read this zine!!!! by Dogmantrain zines

[–]toasthaste 3 points4 points ago

i love this so much every time you post new issues it's the best and only zine ive ever read <3

The worst issue yet of don't read this zine!!!! by Dogmantrain zines

[–]toasthaste 3 points4 points ago

im the mischief lad

ok right but if dinosaurs had feathers then dragons should probably actually have feathers too right? by oakreefin just_post

[–]toasthaste 2 points3 points ago

in the D&D game my friends and I are playing we decided that all dragons are feather, meaning that dragonborn are also feathery. they basically look like giant chickenfolk

ok right but if dinosaurs had feathers then dragons should probably actually have feathers too right? by oakreefin just_post

[–]toasthaste 1 point2 points ago

feathery dragons are A+ but I like having a wide variety like flight rising

tag yourself by nekuin fempire

[–]toasthaste 0 points1 point ago

Uh. Librarian? What’s the one with no makeup and just regular clothes?

with a side of

Comfortable baggy-clothed person

Just got my MA result! by Dogmantrain just_post

[–]toasthaste 4 points5 points ago

omg congration master dogmantra

EXTREMELY GOOD VOLTRON CONTENT by Dogmantrain just_post

[–]toasthaste 2 points3 points ago

it's just so so so good im cry

I watched Voltron Elves it wasn't very good by oakreefin just_post

[–]toasthaste 2 points3 points ago

yea i heard some impressions about it and kinda assumed it wasn't for me

i think my little niece might like it tho? probably